I've been haunted by this kind of dream for over two years. Either breakup or dump me. This time, in the dream, he asked me to accept whatever he wants to do with his son. I refused in the dream. So broke up. It was a painful dream but I was clear in the dream that it finally had an end. I dont think I can bear this any more.
He lied, he cheated, he made a lot mistakes, I accept, I forgive, but he is pushing over my limit.
what is happening is, he hasnt talked with me for six days. What's the reason? Because I cant fully accept his son when he is not yet divorced? Ridiculous! He is asking too much. He promised me whatever I'd like him to do or not to do, he would listen to me. Isnt that a lie again?
whatever, whatever he wants to do. I am do tired and desperate. I wont talk to him and wont compromise my feeling. If he really wants to be a father, just go. Good luck!